For many people, when it comes to relationships, the biggest question always seems to be; “do I like this person?” and “are we a good match?”. Too few do people ask if it’s the right time and I think that’s where a lot of people go wrong. While our 20’s are a fun time for us, we also have to keep growing mentally and emotionally. It is one of the most important time in our life because we are having to leave our childhood behind and embrace adulthood. When we get out of high-school and into our adult lives we take on a lot more responsibilities which can affect your ability to have a strong relationship.
There are times in our lives when you are too busy or you have some growing to do to be in a mature relationship and that is absolutely ok. The right person at the wrong time is just the same as the wrong person at the right time. If you are not ready for a relationship or are not in the right headspace, even if it is the “right” person, take all the time you’ll need or else that relationship with the right person will fail. There are way too many stigmas about being single and they all need to end! Learning to enjoy your life by yourself is an amazing gift that you should give to yourself. When you learn to listen to your gut when it comes to the right time you’ll find the universe opens up to you and puts the right people and opportunities in your life.
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